Terribly unhappy in my marriage and wish to have a fb
 

I am young but extremely unhappy in my marriage.
My hub cannot satisfy me
and tbh I really do think I'm very hot.
Slim , c cups , pretty face
My hub is such a lucky bastard who doesn't deserve this at all
I feel so terribly unhappy with him.
Throughout my dating period, I still get indecent proposals from my male friends, asking me to go their house or date them since my bf wasn't paying me attention at all seeing that I'm always alone .
Sex has always been lackluster , perhaps fun only for the first couple of years when we were dating.
My hub is my first . Can u imagine? This beauty here has only fucked 1 man before. I'm so infuriated just thinking about this! he doesn't deserve it at all!
Then I found out ,Even when we got married a couple of years ago, whilst I was rejecting those indecent proposal from my male friends. This bastard hub has been keeping a mistress.
Mind you, boring sex was totally his fault. I would do anything to please him. I have higher sex drive than him, always asking him for more, even bought lots of sexy lingerie myself to please and give him surprises.
Offer him bjs.but he's always tired and lots of excuses like he needs to wake up early tomorrow, tired from work, noisy his parents can hear etc.

I was devastated! even when the sex was lackluster, I still kept my moral standard because I will tell myself 'well... At least he's faithful' because when I had known him, he has always talked about having high standard of integrity.
Besides, he can't even satisfy me already where he find the energy to fuck another girl?
I felt like such an idiot.

I cannot fathom why he would cheat on me when he can't even satisfy me!! For a period of time I thought he might be gay/turned gay or possibly impotent and wanted him to see a doctor .

Anyway I have overcame this , I decided to forgive him by telling myself that it's common to have an affair. Well... I'm getting sick of seeing just his dick too.
Since I have such high moral standards for myself, keeping myself for him . I can now finally overcome this. I will NOT feel guilty if I were to cheat on him and sleep with another man.
So now I want to. He can't satisfy me at all. I want sex all the time, anytime, spontaneous adventurous sex which a boring person like him couldn't satisfy.
I always fantasize about fucking my male friends whom had made indecent proposal to me. Feeling so stupid for turning down a night of fun.

Now... This friend whom I want to have a 'fun' night with no longer make indecent proposal to me. Which is such a party pooper because this is the man whom I have been in love with for the longest time. Possibly because he has a gf now and I know he is a good person.
Now I can finally have fun with him with no other obligations etc he got himself a gf and decides to be a good bf????

I have tried msging him more often but he no longer invites me for any outing. No outing = no opportunity for anything fun to take place right?

Re: Terribly unhappy in my marriage and wish to have a fb
 

hahah , sis , dont worry .
you will find tons of free guys willing to date u out .

maybe you can intro a bit more ?

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Hi Jane,

Sorry to hear that.

Is your hubby able to perform in the first place? Maybe you could suggest to him to go on a holiday with you.

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Not to defend your hub.

But sometimes its that arrogance that turn guys off.

Woman thinking that they are too hot can sometimes be a turnoff.

Why dont you try to act innocent for a while, but dress sexily when going out.

let him know the amount of attention other guys are giving to you.

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Hi ts,
Do what u want, live how u want & leave no regrets if there's no tomorrow.
Life's unpredictable! And I witness it myself

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Sad to hear ur story. But please calm down and don't act emotionally.

Let me know if u would like to hang out.

Don't go around and fuck any guys that come along.

Open up ur social circle. Meet more guys. When u found one that u fancy, then let nature takes it's course since u have no inhibition now.

FB only works if there are some mutual attraction and understanding

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Hi Janetaw, Sorry to hear about your state right now, perhaps a talk with your hubby could ease the agony u have rite now, sometime being honest and calm talk do led to a better outcome ?

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Ur pm should be full by now i guess.... :D

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Do you have kids and see where's your priorities, my two cents worth..
Else, my signature says it all, but do it responsibly.

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Sis, it doesn't mean that just because your husband is having an affair, you do the same to him as well. If you're disappointed in him, divorce. But if you are willing to forgive him, sit down and have a talk on the issues. Communicate communicate communicate. I know its tough cos your husband is able to fuck another girl while he's not able to satisfy you but it will be great if you can have a talk with him. who knows you both may end up satisfying each other's fantasy. Communication is the most important part of a relationship, no matter what relationship you are in.

But if you think he's unable to satisfy you even after the talk, just break off the marriage provided you don't have kids else they will suffer :(

not judging. we don't have the full story either. its not good to be taking revenge. think very carefully before you make the next move cos its going to be your life changer..

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As mentioned, this guy whom I'm interested in.

I do not need anything from him, which is why I'm fine with him having a gf. I just want my sexual needs to be met.
Since I'm a newbie at crossing moral high grounds, baby steps have to be taken right? I can't straight away jump into a pool of ONSes with strangers..

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sorry to hear those. but if u need someone to speak to, i could be there. just pm me.

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I give him absolutely no reason to cheat. He's the only man I've ever been with so I don't know how innocent I have act.

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My view is that to sustain a happy marriage, communication is key.

Find a suitable place and time, have a good talk with your hubby to share your unhappiness and frustrations. Who knows, he may also have issues that you are unaware of.

I do not advocate divorce. But if the feelings are no longer there, no point holding on and being miserable. Just hope that whatever actions or decisions you do make, will not cause any regrets in future.

You only live once, wish you best of luck. :)

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Did your inbox explode? Kidding.. Try to communicate and resolve this. Else divorce may be better. Sleeping ard doesn't really help

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Expected as yr inbox will b flooded ... dum think I will b lucky to b t chosen one :p

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More info.
He's nothing like any of you imagined.
He's short he's small. His family is poor .
He's not rich and god knows how he actually found a woman stupid and desperate enough to fuck him.
I know this woman btw, she's like 6 yrs older than me,way past her prime and is already being left on the shelf. Oh wells I guess she was desperate, she coerced my hub to divorce me and rom with her after they had fucked the second time also on the 2 time they met at the pub.

I was with him since very very young and I HAD high moral standards.
So yes I actually stuck with him through thick and thin. When he was penniless he couldn't buy me any gifts.I never complained abt his dick despite it's size because well... He's ever the only man I've been with so what comparison can I make?
yet I still stuck around.
so I really feel he doesn't deserve this perfect woman = me.

So to 'forgive' him, I had to throw away all these standards of mine.
He only has himself to blame for lowering the standards.

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just a summary : young, hot, slim, c cuppers, pretty face, high sex drive, gives bj, do anything to please, sexy lingerie.. AND SEEKING A FB!

I think ya gonna have a busy time clearing your mailbox every few hours.. :)

on a more serious note, do not want a fb just for the sake of revenge. have a good talk with the hubby and work things out if possible. most couples (married or not) aint on the same page in terms of sex drive/kinks/fetishes etc.

if all else fail, feel free to start a thread looking for one. you will be overwhelmed by the response if u aint already.. :P

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Anw I'm sick of being conformed to some moral standards.
I'm also sick of fucking this tiny short man.
The fb i look for have to be tall and handsome and hopefully(not a must) able to shower me some gift of appreciation . I mean I'm not bad myself so I believe I can easily find a handsome man to have fun with right?
Not as if he doesn't get anything in return + no strings attached

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Sis,

Sad to hear your story but when you say your hubby have a mistress, did you catch them together? Think back to your dating time I am sure sex then must be good and you must have loved him a lot to marry him.

So why jeopardize all these before both of you have a good talk? Having an affair is easy but the implications are also great, please give it some thoughts.

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sometime, being young, hot, slim, c cuppers, pretty face, high sex drive, gives bj, do anything to please, sexy lingerie.. is not what a man actually seek in partner. It could be more a matter of the heart.

I will rather have a soul mate that truly understand me than a hot babe that can give good sex. Beauty and youth won't last.

Finding a fb could actually backfire if you still treasure this relationship. Seriously have a thought. Try improving the communication with you hubby or do some soul searching why did he stray despite you being so hot?

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Sis,

Although you are pretty it does not mean you have a happy married life especially in sex. Physical appearance and personal pleasure satisfaction are totally two different thing together. If you want to cheat... well, I think sex partner with no commitment would be the best option for you. The main thing is no feelings involved except full pleasure fun. Another option is to divorce and find a new husband that can truly satisfy you in bed.

Because in real life you will often find if the wife is pretty husband is usually ugly and rich one. If the husband handsome then wife is ugly and very controlling one. Fair? Not fair? Up to you. But that's the way it is from many young couple I had met in real life including friends and relatives.

And if the husband is handsome and wife pretty usually one of them will cheat outside (third party). Last year I managed to have PM chat with a young pretty wife online here and husband is abandoning her while she is pregnant their first child and the wife told me she dun understand while her husband is cheating outside with a lady uglier than her? She told me that her husband is good looking and also a heavy drinker (10 can of beers in whole night).

And according to her, the sex life is getting from bad to worse. She disappeared (log out) after that and told me she need to give birth first then will decide again, most probably for divorce. If you need personal chat to release all your frustration and sorrow, feel free to PM me and I will reply back.

Good luck,

bro jnudes

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hmmm... if u wanna just to have fun I believe a lot bros besides me will be willing to.

But don't use it as a revenge tool :)

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You do sound very angry 😧 maybe you have to find one of your female friends to cool down over some drinks la. Don't do anything in anger that you might regret.

And don't worry about finding a fb, after such a post, half of singapore's men will volunteer 😅

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There should be no anger in life, just need to know what you want and live your life in full.

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Becareful in wat u wish for...U might or might not regret it one day

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u forgotten she has high moral standard too... :D:D:D

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Relax sis, if u don't like him leave him...生命無常

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Sis, try to clear your inbox lel, I am trying to pm you. Or why not you pm me.:D
Her inbox must be full liao
In the end to be easy is to look for a suger daddy lol

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Sis,

If money no issue for u can find gigolo and try their sex services since you are very much into sex. To be a gigolo they must be handsome and can perform well in bed.

I am sure they can give you the best sex service and make you very satisfied in the end. If you don't like the first one, can always go for new one.

Sure your inbox must be full now. I am sure the bros here will give you big headache to choose for your potential FB. And you may regret it in the end with your selection.