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Originally Posted by takeshiblue

This is also have a theory in traditional chinese medicine system. Man is Yang 阳 ( Hot energy ), woman is Ying 阴 ( Cold energy ), traditional chinese emphasize that everything must be Ying Yang mixed & balance 阴阳调和, otherwise will cause harm. When man PCC, he shoot out sperm ( Yang energy ), but no gain any Ying energy back. After frequent time doing this too often, he will become unbalance because losing too many Yang energy, in chinese said 孤阳不长. But sex with gal is something different, by body contact & penetration, man shoot out Yang energy ( Big amount ), will gain some Ying energy back ( Small amount ). Same to gal, they gain Yang energy ( Small amount ) to balance their body system after sex with man. But take note that, traditional chinese not recommend over sex ( eg. everyday sex ), they recommend 7 day 1 sex for 20yo~30yo, 14 day 1 sex for 30yo～40yo, 1 month 1 sex for 40yo~50yo. Because man shoot out a lot Yang, but gain back little bit Ying only. Even Ying energy can balance man body system, but man body system need material, time & energy to produce sperm, if over sex, the small amount of Ying energy is too little to patch up the losing of big amount of Yang energy.

I remembered something along the lines of below 30yrs old is ok to ejaculate 3-4 times a week, 30-40yrs old 1-2 times a week, 40-50yrs old 1-2 times a month kind of thing.

Got some theory that in our middle age its best to practise sex without ejaculation (then can do it daily as it does not involve losing 精)