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roadtohell You are definitely not wrong. I think to differentiate doormat would be your intentions and how you behave. In this case, I was motivated to get to know her and possibly bang her. Doormats are usually on the call and immediate response to the girl, machiam without the girl you would die. Keep a cool head, invest some time, if it doesn't work, move on to another. Plus concurrently also have other girls also lah... Its not like that girl will just stick to you and talk only with you.
If you find yourself waiting for her messages, being overly nice to her to a point of creepy, chances are, you are a doormat. Time to get the fuck out~