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Originally Posted by Karaja
As a result of how difficult my first divorce was, I never wanted to date again. Since then, it's only been escorts, happy endings, brothels and etc etc. Although I had a great time, I couldn't help but miss having an emotional connection with someone else.
I signed up for many dating apps and started looking. There was no need to be pushy or push to get the cunt since within a week I was going out on dates with matches and I was mostly focused on relationships rather than sex (I was still fucking prostitutes).
I grew intrigued in one particular woman, and we had sex after the third date. To be honest, her sex was terrible, dead fish style. We've been having sex/seeing each other for about three weeks.
I'd estimate she's 6 or 7, and I'm used to fucking 8+ prostitutes, but while the dates and communication are enjoyable, the sex is generally underwhelming. I've tried to be courteous and encouraging, but she seemed to believe that laying on her back and spreading her legs is all there is to sex. I've had sex with over 300 women in my life and I simply don't believe I'll be able to find relationships enjoyable any more.
As I hinted at previously spending time with her is enjoyable outside of the bedroom, and it's great to banter every day, but for me, having sex with a suitable partner is a lot of pleasure.
I believe that because I have experienced so many excellent prostitutes, a typical civilised lady would never catch up or be able to compete. I believe that for me, visiting prostitutes is the road to finding fulfillment in life. The everyday duties of having to connect with the gf are growing irksome and might seem overpowering at times. Anyone had come to this understanding?
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Sex definitely is an important part in the relationship. however considering her reaction in bed as you have mentioned, both parties need to put effort into making it enjoyable. she should have the desire to want to know how to make you feel good and you need to know how to turn her on.
as you have described, it seems to me both expecting the other to already know what to do and to make it pleasurable.