[Willamshakspear]

Women are Humans too & have needs. Their needs are different from men & thus miscommunication happens. As the saying goes - women needs to feel wanted & be loved, not just for the moment but every moment, & men just need a place. It's within our Human genes, descended from our ancient hunter gatherer ancestors when Humankind only lived in caves & jungles.

However, we no longer live in such, but had progressed far beyond that and even to the stars. One thing that remains still is the Power of Love. It either uplifts us to heights, compelling us to achieve far from what we can do or know, or simply consumes us & burn us to the core when we have closed minds.

Ultimately, to divorce or not lays in further communications between partners - discussing & finding solutions to progress, as our ancestors had done to get out of jungles to create civilizations that we know today, than to hide pain/hurts & then resort to violence or legal redress for resolution, which is akin to cutting a part of our own flesh...as each divorcee male or female deep within their heart knows...

To lie, to cheat, etc only harms both partners as trust is lost & a future of trustlessness is unsustainable in a relationship. Words are not enough, it needs action of love & constant communications to rebuild that trust, not overnite but overtime.

All that a U-turn in divorce proceedings needs is for each to remember what brought them together to get married in the 1st place, the sacrifices & promises made by both party, to find a common ground, & rebuild love & trust thru communication.

During courtship, love was easy as each were young & had no baggage of worries-living with parents, blooming career prospects, etc. But once married, the finances pile up - house, car, bills, career, etc, & mostly fall on man to settle. As a Sporean male-nothing is free & have to work hard, & thus with such worries - neglect to wife becomes common & have little time or desire for intimacy a woman needs.

The separation becomes deeper with each passing day, until each seek for intimate needs - men who needs just a place, from colleagues or nightlife operators, & woman from any man who can show or at the least pretend to show concern & care to get into their panties, falling for it with little or no thought of future.

In the end - love is easy, but living together will be difficult. It takes communication & compromises to build a future together. No Human thinks alike, & is reflected on the high echelons of society - no leader thinks alike thus the strife & chaos among nations - our Humankind Civilization, which in order to progress, we need to discuss & find solutions than resort to violence or divorce.