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If commercial sex is such a great evil why is it still prevalent in over 20 countries?
Historically there will be 20-30% of the male population who will not get married and those who will not get sex from women ever. This is a danger to society unless managed properly. No amount of religious intervention will curb sex drive. We can see this clearly in the Catholic church with those reports of predatory clergymen in schools / churches & in Tibetan 双修 where unsuspecting young women were raped thinking they were guided on the path to enlightenment. What happened to TS was that he was in a sexual vacuum & he was overwhelmed and consumed by the sexual experience. Thats why some well meaning oldtimers always emphasize commercial sex as a high risk activity that shouldn’t be taken lightly and you need to approach it with caution & discipline. Will there be potholes aong the way? Of course, life is uncertain. Raw is war , as you have no doubt seen the mantra in this forum. If you can get off social media , porn, sex forums & commercial sex, it may give you sufficient motivation to find a partner. There’s a caveat though- women don’t like desperate men. You can be horny but if you are desperate they can sense it and it puts them off. Thats where commercial sex comes in to help quench that thirst a little. And if you ask the ladies they do not like philanderers but they would not prefer their men to be virgins either.