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Originally Posted by lamelame76
if like what you said that this is very common for people approaching their 30s, then I feel slightly better and I just wish that this phase passes quickly cos the feeling really sucks.
For my gf, I actually know one of her friends is super horny and super open to talk about these topics with her. But my gf is the "listen listen interesting enough alr" kind being a conservative person. Her being so conservative makes me feel very awkward to talk about this with her as well, still trying to find a way to do it.
Haha I dont think I will need to find you face to face yet bro but I will keep you in mind in case I really feel like I cannot take it already. Of course I wont want you shouting about it in public but I guess it would help to have someone to talk to. Regarding MMA, coincidentally I was indeed thinking of signing up for activities such as MMA/ Muay Thai or just Anytime fitness to keep myself healthy, but feel a bit paiseh to go MMA this kind cos Im super unfit. Do you do MMA??
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You never know, maybe your gf is only awkward around her friends cos she don't fully trust this friend of hers who kept talking about sex thats why she kept quiet. If you slowly entice your gf maybe your gf will open up and become very wild also. If no matter how much you try your gf is still the cold attitude towards sex you are really in trouble haha. Be romantic, arrange smell good place, quiet, comfortable, safe and secure place to initiate intimacy. At night best i think with candles litted if not daytime also can
If you not keen on her friend who is excited about sex can introduce to me? She already qualified for my main checkpoint of a wife. Haha jk maybe her face cui cmi.
I have never joined MMA but i did other martial arts and sparring. MMA should be almost similar.
I will recommend MMA more than gym. MMA you are screwed by instructor and gym you may not have self discipline. The result i find martial arts is better for fitness and you may be able to make friends. Cos need to do a lot of shit and train whole body one. You have to spar and do body contact which builds up confidence tremendously. But Sparring has its cons because you will get injured, teeth broken, bone broken if not careful. You can choose not to spar. I am actually quite afraid of sparring but i have done it. It is very painful to get punched by my instructor who is bigger size than me though i can tell he already tried to minimise his power.
You are unfit thats why you need to go MMA, MMA is not for strong people. It is to train you to become strong. Girls go there to train also. I'm weak also but i went to train up. Its fun one except the dreaded sparring.
It doesnt hurt for guys to learn fighting at least it makes you more manly.
Most importantly MMA will make you feel good mentally.