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What if the lover's wife is fat & ugly?
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luckily sugarbook does not have this, of not i sure been caught by my boyfriend...haha
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this is too hiong
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u also go sugarbook.live find another la, then is fair lol
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this is true in this reality
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Believe you already have an answer..... if i were u, divorce but prepared your finances well
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#1 Be self-aware. Have you cheated on your wife before? Or cheating on her now? Btw, visiting FLs, pros also constitute having affairs. If answer is yes, perhaps you need to evaluate how tenable will your marriage be... if both parties are already having affairs. Also, you should be prepared to answer if she fires back saying that she knows about your affairs as well. #2 How did you get the backup chats? You should have a good answer for that as well. #3 Before talking to her, decide what you really want, and what you can live with. E.g. Are you ready to forgive her? Or no matter what she says, you want a divorce. etc. Only you will know. But you need to decide what you want and what you can live with. Cos after deciding a decision, living it can be very different. #4 Talk to her. Because if you don't, you will be the one suffering in silence. It'll differently be difficult. We don't know your wife, but whatever happens, you must stay calm, regardless of how she reacts. Be it shouting, kicking, etc. Point is.. you MUST stay calm. #5 Give her time to decide what she wants. During that time, give her space. Ask her to give you space too. Make it a truce... no fighting, no shouting. But state a time so both of you can sit down again to talk. #6 Meet at agreed time. You tell her what you want. And she tells you what she wants. I think at this point, both of you need to be truly honest to each other and yourself. See how far away are your wants vs her wants. By then, you'll probably know what next steps to take... stay married or divorce. Everything else after this is just logistics... Good luck bro... |
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Hypocrite . Just that my opinion doesn’t align with yours doesn’t make my opinion worthless . Look at what kind of forum this is before speaking. Hypocrite. Just saying , I got almost the similar experience before and the third party is scared of me till this date. So fucking scared. |
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genuine question here - why u can but she cannot?
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Finally one that cannot be found in sugarbook, all the while I thought it has everything
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I was in a similar situation and I asked her point blank what she wanted. My (now ex-) wife, wanted to leave the family and marry the other guy. So I gave her back the freedom that she wanted and took the kids. I made sure that she did not get a single cent in alimony, not even the nominal one dollar. Everything was settled outside the courts and my divorce process took only 4 months, zero court appearances and a grand total of $4,000. If you do a search by my username, you will see my previous detailed posts about my experience. Samsters who have never been through the actual divorce process like to say all sorts of scary shit about Women's Charter. Having gone through the process, I realize that it is not the all-powerful thing that so many guys fear. You do not lose half your assets. The woman cannot make you destitute. Generally the courts will try to split the assets in the relative proportion to which they have contributed to the marriage. The key thing is documentation - if your financial record-keeping sucks then you better spend a few hundred dollars in past years' bank statements reconstructing your financial flows to your properties, to her and for the family. You will need to do this, anyway. At the end of the day, you decide if you can put up with the situation and if you think you and your children can be happy. I see from your previous posts you had quite a bit of fun with maids, presumably that was when your wife's sex drive went down after she had kids so you aren't innocent yourself (none of us in the forum are). It is important that you approach your wife with the evidence in a calm manner. Remember that the only purpose of collecting evidence of adultery, is to convince the Family Court judge that your marriage has broken down without any hope of reconciliation. Your evidence has zero bearing on who gets what - since these are ancillary matters to be decided separately. |
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I asked the same question. Generally non financial contributions are considered in cases where the wife does not work, then the court will impute a contribution amount. But it won't be half your assets, the most important thing is still being able to prove, using financial records how much of the overall expenses each party contributes and what type of lifestyle your family has been accustomed to. Obviously who has care and control of the children, is the biggest factor that will swing the asset and monthly alimony split. In my case, my ex wife wanted out and she did not want the children so all she got back was her share of the house according to the exact proportion that she has contributed through her CPF and her loan payment contribution. Her non tangible contributions like housework and bearing children had zero bearing on the asset split.
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