True matters of the heart

[mahendragon]

Originally Posted by Zetyalpha

Though, it is cheaper to keep her. I think you consider divorce if you can afford. Best is to do shopping around for lawyers. Truth is, you're the enabler and this behaviour will definitely continue into the future.

A husband with all the responsibility and NONE of the authority is literally a slave. I don't know why you and lots of men before you just put up with this type of behaviour

Alot of SG Chinese married men are henpecked. You may disagree but this is my observation. Women here are a protected class in the peasantry by the Women's charter.

They're a means to control married men to keep them compliant and keep working literally to their death. I am not a Muslim nor an Arab. But Islam is definitely right about women.

yea agree with the henpecked. i used to be one myself. now no more such nonsense for me!

[jfp1976]

bro u advice on point. i used to be a people pleaser and pushover as well. some drastic experiences wake up my idea need to stand up for myself and now life better and more happy.

[silvooon]

Originally Posted by larue

Being with your wife will be your ruin.

You are doubling down on your ruin by carrying on with the other woman.

Your mental prison is strong.

I agree with your opinion

[jayden12345]

Don't do something you regret

[acerboy12]

agreed! good women is hard to find.

[having]

Originally Posted by fallen11

you can leave your marriage.
i would leave if i were you.
BUT...
Not because of that FL. Keep others out of the equation so that you can think with a straight head. Otherwise you may end up getting out of 1 trouble, just to go into something worse.

yeah right. think about all the factors with straight head, life is hard don't make it harder.

[ethanw]

end things first before moving on to new relationship. any update on the wife of yours?