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Old 23-01-2023, 12:38 PM
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Re: My last day here-This is my story. AMA

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Old 23-01-2023, 01:07 PM
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I think you should have given her the full pay as a "rejection cost" as it would have helped her hardship without soiling her this time, and you would have made a break and thought deeply about who really profits from this trade (not you, not her), but I know it's hard to fight that lust and that perspective only comes in the moment after, I am not judging you bro.
Then you are either truly maganimous or filty rich bro. Not many people here will pay a ML $120 after being scammed by her photos as a rejection fee.
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Old 23-01-2023, 03:20 PM
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Ya this is my fault. Im an average looking guy, like your typical guy next door. Couldnt get any hot chicks and im not willing to settle for average girls.(bc im a horny dude who only wants hot girls lol)

This is something that im trying to work on as well. To be less superficial and try to be attracted to things other than looks. Quite worried that my cheonging days may give me unrealistic expectations also lol
Glad to know that u know that u have unrealistic expectations

Always rem. The porn whole doesn't exist in real world.

In real world, u can get average looking gal who's hot in bed. U can also get a hot looking gal who's a dead fish in bed.

The question is how long can u last in porn world?

U will have to wake up one day and face the reality.

To know the porn world is one thing, but to be addicted to it is a serious matter.

It destroys your youth and perception of the real life.
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Old 23-01-2023, 06:09 PM
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Glad to know that u know that u have unrealistic expectations

Always rem. The porn whole doesn't exist in real world.

In real world, u can get average looking gal who's hot in bed. U can also get a hot looking gal who's a dead fish in bed.

The question is how long can u last in porn world?

U will have to wake up one day and face the reality.

To know the porn world is one thing, but to be addicted to it is a serious matter.

It destroys your youth and perception of the real life.
This is very true. My generation grew up in a social media world with easy access to porn. Totally screwed up my perception of female beauty. Sometimes even when i visit ML/FL also cant get hard lol.
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Old 23-01-2023, 10:05 PM
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Re: My last day here-This is my story. AMA

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in life, its all about what motivates you.

i had a long term relationship for >7 years which was almost sexless at the ending. in the first few years, sex was regular and even good, but as with almost all sinkie women, devolved into almost nothing at the ending. it left me feeling unwanted, thinking i was unskilled, and generally low confidence.

I went to MLs and FLs after ending the relationship, but with the mindset that these activities were purely monetary transactions - you get what you pay for, regardless of GFE or whatever. its the same for the ML/FL too.

honestly, i regained my confidence, and my demeanour around non FL/ML women changed drastically - i no longer was acting like a simp around women, my workouts were devoted to purely for self fulfilment and finally, i was no longer shackled to my job/finances for the sake of a relationship - i took bigger risks with my money and did much better.

all of these was because i knew that getting my sexual urges resolved was just a monetary transaction away. it seems to be quite the opposite of yourself.

in short, your motivations are the primary factor. if it helps, i am not religious and feel absolutely no remorse or regret engaging ML/FLs. life is too short to worry about what others think of you, but what you do for yourself. if you cant love yourself, no one else will love you.
Completely agree with this. Sometimes the sexual urges are the ones that take up the most of your mental space. If you can solve it as a transaction and use the rest of your time to improve yourself, then engaging MLs / FLs can improve your life drastically because you will be much more focused day-to-day.

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Old 23-01-2023, 10:39 PM
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Re: My last day here-This is my story. AMA

If commercial sex is such a great evil why is it still prevalent in over 20 countries?
Historically there will be 20-30% of the male population who will not get married and those who will not get sex from women ever. This is a danger to society unless managed properly. No amount of religious intervention will curb sex drive. We can see this clearly in the Catholic church with those reports of predatory clergymen in schools / churches & in Tibetan 双修 where unsuspecting young women were raped thinking they were guided on the path to enlightenment. What happened to TS was that he was in a sexual vacuum & he was overwhelmed and consumed by the sexual experience. Thats why some well meaning oldtimers always emphasize commercial sex as a high risk activity that shouldn’t be taken lightly and you need to approach it with caution & discipline. Will there be potholes aong the way? Of course, life is uncertain. Raw is war , as you have no doubt seen the mantra in this forum. If you can get off social media , porn, sex forums & commercial sex, it may give you sufficient motivation to find a partner. There’s a caveat though- women don’t like desperate men. You can be horny but if you are desperate they can sense it and it puts them off. Thats where commercial sex comes in to help quench that thirst a little. And if you ask the ladies they do not like philanderers but they would not prefer their men to be virgins either.

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Old 23-01-2023, 11:15 PM
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Re: My last day here-This is my story. AMA

my man, no one here should judge you for your actions, except yourself.

i wish you all the best bro. good luck gong xi fa cai.
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Old 23-01-2023, 11:46 PM
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If commercial sex is such a great evil why is it still prevalent in over 20 countries?
Historically there will be 20-30% of the male population who will not get married and those who will not get sex from women ever. This is a danger to society unless managed properly. No amount of religious intervention will curb sex drive. We can see this clearly in the Catholic church with those reports of predatory clergymen in schools / churches & in Tibetan 双修 where unsuspecting young women were raped thinking they were guided on the path to enlightenment. What happened to TS was that he was in a sexual vacuum & he was overwhelmed and consumed by the sexual experience. Thats why some well meaning oldtimers always emphasize commercial sex as a high risk activity that shouldn’t be taken lightly and you need to approach it with caution & discipline. Will there be potholes aong the way? Of course, life is uncertain. Raw is war , as you have no doubt seen the mantra in this forum. If you can get off social media , porn, sex forums & commercial sex, it may give you sufficient motivation to find a partner. There’s a caveat though- women don’t like desperate men. You can be horny but if you are desperate they can sense it and it puts them off. Thats where commercial sex comes in to help quench that thirst a little. And if you ask the ladies they do not like philanderers but they would not prefer their men to be virgins either.
Going by your logic, why is drugs, war, rape, famine and general human suffering so prevalent? Does this mean that all the aforementioned are not evil? Commercial sex is prevalent due to human nature. It will always exist as long as human exist, and as such the government chose to regulate it in licensed brothels, which is a much better alternative than letting it run underground unregulated.

Whether commercial sex is a moral activity is a different subject altogether - one which can be extensively debated based on societal norms, various schools of philosophical thought, and different religious ideologies. Since this is a sex forum,let's not go there.

But never confuse morality with legality and the prevalance of said activity. That's an erroneous logical flaw.
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Old 24-01-2023, 01:28 PM
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This is very true. My generation grew up in a social media world with easy access to porn. Totally screwed up my perception of female beauty. Sometimes even when i visit ML/FL also cant get hard lol.

U need to get a real gf. Not a virtual porn star.

Don't be like those jap guys who can't interact with real gals and they keep sex dolls at home. It's disgusting to know that.
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Old 25-01-2023, 11:10 AM
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Re: My last day here-This is my story. AMA

Thanks for the post.

Like you, i was into ML and FL for the past 10-15 years and honestly, found a lot of excitment and joy during those times. And of course, i've spent a lot a lot of money on those activities.

It was only the last 3-4 years that i found something more sustainable and probably better. 2-3 FBs and the last FB that i met that gave everything to me and i cannot give her anything except, hopefully, great sex. I stopped going to FL and ML already and really, i saved a lot of money, greater peace of mind and found someone whom i can share my secrets with in a way (FB)

But alas, all good things must come to an end and we ended the relationship a few months back as guilt crept in and i have now not visited any ML/FL since as well.

Maybe its an age/family thing or what but i just want to go back home and spend time with my family and fuck my wife (my wife is very hot. i am not sure why i even go out and makan in the first place.)

I hope to be clean now as well and hope i can resist the calling of temptations. So far so good though.

I wish you well.
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Old 25-01-2023, 11:32 AM
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Re: My last day here-This is my story. AMA

My situation was a bit different. I had a good wife. We fucked almost everyday. Then my 4th daughter passed away. The grief, the guilt, made us both decided we don't want sex with each other anymore. I still love my wife but the depression I had, was suicidal.

I wrote before. I was going to kill myself. I did my will, LPOA, signed the organ donation form, then I was already going to commit suicide. But after a session with a a maid, who at the time was a 9/10 for me, I started to realised that anything I wanted, God gave it to me.

I wanted money, I got it. I've a good family, I've travelled for 10 years for work, and one of the things I lacked was girls. Before I decided to die, I prayed and asked, "if I'm going to die, then better I fulfill wishes that all men desired, before I go to hell." But amazingly, I recovered from depression instead.

I guess, everyone has a different story. Some say sex is an addiction. But for some like me, it's empowerment and a reminder that whatever I believed I'll get, I will.

There's no one size fits all. Even if you put your $100 in a stock, also doesn't mean you'll come out of it richer. Cuz portfolios can also fall to zero.

No offence to any bros especially Regretfulman. Just my 2 cents worth.

And Regretfulman bro, all the best to you too.
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I wanted money, I got it. I've a good family, I've travelled for 10 years for work, and one of the things I lacked was girls. Before I decided to die, I prayed and asked, "if I'm going to die, then better I fulfill wishes that all men desired, before I go to hell." But amazingly, I recovered from depression instead.

I guess, everyone has a different story. Some say sex is an addiction. But for some like me, it's empowerment and a reminder that whatever I believed I'll get, I will.
Of all the replies here, yours touch me the most. I wish you all the best.

As for bro Regretfulman - seriously, don't come back here if you have resolved to leave. I was about to pen something fairly nasty and unsupportive but since you are young and trying to make a better path, then lai, uncle also support you.
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Of all the replies here, yours touch me the most. I wish you all the best.

As for bro Regretfulman - seriously, don't come back here if you have resolved to leave. I was about to pen something fairly nasty and unsupportive but since you are young and trying to make a better path, then lai, uncle also support you.
Sorry to clarify - this post is an AMA so i will be replying to people here. I will also be using this thread to document my journey to share to other brothers here who may have the same experience.

Feel free to write what you feel in your heart bro. I wont get offended. Its good to have different perspectives and a civil discussion. This is also the purpose of the AMA. To reply to other perspectives.
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My situation was a bit different. I had a good wife. We fucked almost everyday. Then my 4th daughter passed away. The grief, the guilt, made us both decided we don't want sex with each other anymore. I still love my wife but the depression I had, was suicidal.

I wrote before. I was going to kill myself. I did my will, LPOA, signed the organ donation form, then I was already going to commit suicide. But after a session with a a maid, who at the time was a 9/10 for me, I started to realised that anything I wanted, God gave it to me.

I wanted money, I got it. I've a good family, I've travelled for 10 years for work, and one of the things I lacked was girls. Before I decided to die, I prayed and asked, "if I'm going to die, then better I fulfill wishes that all men desired, before I go to hell." But amazingly, I recovered from depression instead.

I guess, everyone has a different story. Some say sex is an addiction. But for some like me, it's empowerment and a reminder that whatever I believed I'll get, I will.

There's no one size fits all. Even if you put your $100 in a stock, also doesn't mean you'll come out of it richer. Cuz portfolios can also fall to zero.

No offence to any bros especially Regretfulman. Just my 2 cents worth.

And Regretfulman bro, all the best to you too.
Sorry bro i dont quite catch your story - can clarify?

So you cured your depression by fucking a maid? If one day your wife finds out and leave with your kids you will still be happy?

A simple analogy - a poor man is depressed and decides to rob a bank of $100mil. Having succeeded the first time, he then tries to rob another bank for $200mil. This time he gets caught and spends life in imprisonment and falls back to depression.

In the above scenario, would you consider robbing a bank a good moral activity that should be encouraged?

Genuinely confused with your story lol
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